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Successful breaks! And also by « happy » after all, things certain sense truly bad nowadays?? And the majority of of us have probably had the vacation ideas changed again?? But fortunately the gift to you is a virtual one AKA our long-awaited mailbag event! We get into tough feelings surrounding non-monogamy, fictional figures we might want regarding pod, and so much more. Thank you so much to everyone who submitted questions! SHOW NOTES + Here are the lip recs from Christina! Almost Lipstick from Clinique and Powder Puff Lippie from NYX . + when it feels very good, take action . + you cannot see Barbara Hammer films online in case you’re in Los Angeles you will find Nitrate Kisses in theatres next month for free . + Scissoring merch ! get scissoring merch! + An essay on Paul Takes the Form of a Mortal Girl and my model of sluttiness . + Ro’s piece on dental dams. + The Novice is out today! see it! Drew: I was talking-to my father of individualsâ Christina: Bringing dads into this space! Drew: I’m sure â about becoming happy. And my father ended up being like, « Oh, well, do you really believe it is because here is the first commitment you’ve obtained into as yourself? Christina: First, dad, which is so nice! Drew: I’m sure! Really nice dad opinion. Christina: Go-off, king! Drew: And I also ended up being like â extremely amusing for you yourself to contact my father king. Theme track performs Drew: Hi, I Am Drew! Christina: And That I’m Christina! And this refers to a podcast that we forgot the intro to already. Drew: That is ok! It has been a little while. Christina: Woohoo, it offers. Drew: This is exactly Wait, Is It a night out together? Christina: Yes, that podcast. Drew: We’ll analysis component. Introducing Wait, So Is This a romantic date? An Autostraddle podcast all about sex and internet dating as queer individuals with queer folks, hopefully. Exactly how, just how in the morning we carrying out? Christina: No, In my opinion you’re smashing it. I believe what exactly is actually interesting about it occurrence is this is our mailbag event in which we’re going to end up being taking concerns away from you, the audience. A lot of you sent in vocals memos and email messages, and we also possess content material together with questions and hopefully the responses, but like, we, I’m not going to say everything too crazy. I don’t wanna get too outlandish, you know? Drew: Yeah. We’re questioning with you. Should we â i am talking about, this probably is not individuals basic occurrence, however in case people skipped all of us, you know, presenting ourselves, possibly that is another person’s favored area of the podcast. Thus I believe we have to introduce our selves. Christina: Yeah, definitely. Drew: Okay, cool. We’ll go first. I am Drew Gregory. I am an author and a filmmaker and a queer individual. I still determine as a lesbian, but i have been making use of that phrase much less, basically perhaps something that I’m able to unpack on the next occurrence. We still have always been a lesbian, but I additionally am like, precisely what does that also imply? You are sure that? I’m not sure. Brands tend to be funny, but i am pretty certain that I’m a writer. I’m pretty confident that I am a filmmaker. Uh, think about you? Christina: Yeah. Uh, I am Christina Tucker, a writer at Autostraddle also. I will be also a queer individual. I started really utilizing « queer » even more whenever I 1st arrived on the scene and from now on I use lesbian possibly equally. I am also very, i recently form of use whatever term seems correct, coming out of my personal mouth area within the moment. And I also never really think about this more than that. But that is a journey we’re all on, honestly. Drew: I help that. I actually do think that sums right up exactly who the audience is, that i am similar, « i’ll need review this later on. » And you’re like, « i simply type of do what I feel and don’t have to think a lot more about it. » Christina: We very practically select the word that really works perfect for the bit, so⦠Drew: Well, yeah. In order you said, this can be the mailbag occurrence. Should we simply enter initial â oh, I also need to state before we start that in the event that you sent you a concern and in addition we don’t get to it, it will be since there had been certain things that have been like, oh, i do want to unpack this on another complete event, possibly with a unique guest that would become more, you know, perhaps much more qualified to answer it. So we actually value all the questionsâ Christina: You guys delivered plenty of concerns, that was cool, but we would not need time for you to get to every one of those. Drew: Yeah. But they happened to be all read. Christina: And also some people only delivered all of us compliments without questions. Drew: And, you understand, usually with â when this was actually a Q&A before or after a motion picture, it’d end up like, cannot compliment the person. There’s a complete market right here, however for this, the only audience was Christina and I and Lauren. Therefore actually, comments, great. Thanks a lot a great deal. Actually, good. Christina: Thrilling to get, truly among my personal primary meals teams. Drew: So yeah, let’s start off with 1st concern. Inside vocals memo, the person states they are semi-closeted, so we’re gonna exclude names simply to end up being secure here. And let’s hear this concern. Anonymous Asker: So this is coming from somebody who has no experience with dating whatsoever, primarily because i am semi-closeted and living in the typically conservative boonies. As